I made the cake.......and ate some frosting

I made a chocolate cake with chocolate frosting today. I poured whatever leftover sprinkles we had on, cut it up, and froze the pieces. My little one is allowed to have dessert once a week at school. Usually she has the prepackaged ice cream. She finally caught on that there is cake there also but, it's not safe. So, I solved the problem by giving myself something else to do. It's ok though, it will make her safe and included. Now, I know what's going to happen. She's going to take her cake to school tomorrow. Her sister that is nonallergic is going to want to take cake to school too. Do I tell her no? It's really for her sister, but how do I tell her that she can't have cake? That doesn't seem too fair.
I think I will be making lots of cake..........

add cake to the list

I make special food all of the time for my child. It's just the nature of the diagnosis. Luckily school lunch is tree nut free. They also have prepackaged ice cream that is safe, yay! They also have baked goods, cake, that is not safe. It has never bothered her until now. She said that she wished the cake was safe so that she can get a piece on Friday's. That's her one day that she's allowed to get dessert. She looked at me with those eyes....I folded like a cheap suit. So, now I will make cake. I will decorate it and I will cut it up into pieces and freeze them. She did the happy dance when I told her. It's not a lot of work and I would do anything for her. It's just another reminder of the diagnosis.